Leave it in the past | Day in the life RCD

Dwelling on the past is like dragging a boat over dry land by Sheila M.Burke.

Hello RCD readers,

The past

In life sometimes the past comes back to you in a simple walk in the street to a simple recap of sharing your current life with a friend. But to go back in the past and relive the past is dangerous. As a female we often sometimes overthink. And thinking about should've could've is unnecessary. For different reasons but most important reason is people change. The person you met years ago is not the same person in front of you. But that is the same with yourself. Life has molded you into somebody else. People would say meaner, stronger or happier. For me hopefully more stricter to keep my values where they should be. And forgiving myself.

A stranger taught me about different kinds of love which I would say that can also give you different kinds of soulmates 

Soulmates

Life gives you soulmates. People who you will always be connected too no matter who comes in your life. The fulfil different parts of you. And with this you get a sense of peace. But life also gives you friendships within these soulmates

27years friendship TK

First friendships. The first time secrets told. The first time being betrayed by people I trusted. The first time learning about frenemies. The first time learning what jealousy does to people. The forgiveness from my side came naturally but the fully trust in that department will never fully come back. Learning that not everyone that start with you will share their life with you. 

15years friendship RP

The biggest heart. The first crush. The first date. The first future dream. The first miscommunication. The first what if's. The first soulmate. A friend who never really entirely leaves your life because you connect on another level. The person can make your heart smile. Leaving the past in past means living apart and sharing your life with each other. The change of overly happy for each other. Proud of each other's accomplishments. It always brings joy because the other is safe, happy and taken care off. It's a beautiful thing to feel that for people you care about.

13 years CD

First everything. People come into your life and wanting to learn who they have become is some people's  curiosity.  But remember that reliving the past and going back is the thing you can't do. You show them the person you've become and you move forward with that. And how smoothly that goes will determine the fate of the current friendship.  Never stay stuck in the past. Let it go and create something new with the people who make the time and effort for that. 

9years RM

First adult relationship. First time compatible. First time respectful friendship. Life is a blessing. Sharing that with somebody is a blessing. I have the respect for the season past. I'm learning to become my own person in life. Sometimes people want you to stay because of the years. God gives you one life never make a decision based on the amount of work you've put into a friendship. What is meant to be will be. So let that concept go.

6years JP

Safe bonds. True friends. Big hearts.  Undeniable unaware of what they should accept in life. Unaware of their own insecurities. Unaware of their unfair kindness. Unaware of their acceptance of disrespect. A lot of growing but with that a lot of love. A lot of unharmed  innocence.  A lot of wise lesson learned. A lot of late nights talking for hours. A lot of secrets told. A lot of love!! Friendship like this are beautiful and precious that you don't want to harm them at all.

7years DC & CT

That undeniably feeling of unconditional love. The sacrifices that shouldn't be yours to make. The joy of seeing the ones you love go over a hurdle. The obvious spoiling them. They will forevermore feel like your first and always be in your heart. Mine "plaktodos". 

An old friend learned me something last week.

Life is short. You have one life to live. Make sure you just create your own happiness and peace. And with the purpose to share that with others.