Mindfulness | Day in the life RCD

Hello RCD readers,

I wrote this more then once.  As we are going to 2026 I'm still reflecting. But this time not on things I've accomplished and more on the person I am and the one I want to become. We are forever a working project.  For instance I need to work on being more assertive. Which is hard for me. I need to not fall with my boundaries but also deliver them more kindly. I need to take better care of myself. The breaks during Easter, September and December are really important for me. Sometimes I don't even plan something grand. Most of the times I just clean my house and take it easy. It recharges me.If I could turn off my phone too that would be great. But I have responsibilities. So that's not possible.  I choose to respond after my break.

The change I find the most important is not multiple goals. But embracing the new season my life is in and creating something that brings me and the people around me joy. Yes I have certain goals but I have a better understanding that as long as I keep going forward it will happen in due time. That God has me on a daily.

It's all about the mindset. I have a colleague going through something and what we've seen is that everything falls into place like a checkers game. Sometimes cancellations are God's blessings. We often think about the mishap or cancellation as a missed opportunity but it isn't.  God is just redirecting. And that is so true. The first time we met I was really young. I just had a feeling about her. But I never new what it was. When I was younger I was more connected to God's whispers. Never did I thought we would be each other's supporters in life. We have similarities in thinking with certain subjects and entirely different outlook from other perspectives. We fill each other in. Which is funny to say. Odd pairing but their is mutual love, caring and understanding.  

In a world full of jelousy, hate, greed, insecurities.. I rather be the supportive loyal person if that is possible. 

So as I'm starting off my day with finishing one project hopefully tonight and starting with another one for the engineer to do the calculations.  As I'm busy with my 2025 finances. And will be finalizing the last week of 2025. As I've been planning what my Christmas presents for the kids will be or how my Christmas decorations will look like.  As I'm thinking what the best way to go about December this year with a different ME. As I'm thinking about how I will clean my house before Christmas begins. Or which house task will still be done in 2025. I have to ease into the fact that every slow pace day. Every cancellation.  Every late payment. Every hurried project. Everything is all because of God's grace. When I say put your trust in Him. I have so much clearance in that this year. May we grow our relationship with God. May we guard ourselves from anything that misguides us. Have a blessed day.