Become a villager | Day in the life RCD

Hello RCD readers,

I know weird title. Stay with me. I've seen this a lot and it stayed with me. You can't expect things from people that you are not willing to do in return. Yes this came from a reel month's ago but it stuck with me. For the context. It was about parents use to have a community that would be a call away. That would support always. That protected each other. That took care of each other. That were your made family. The point was people want this. We need this. Our soul begs for real good community.  In our churches a lot strive for that purpose.  To create a community in our Christian churches. Which is so hard for most and other's it goes so smoothly. 

As a individual, I tend to not create a community.  Mostly because I've caught people talking behind my back. In which it may be an ego thing or me protecting myself but I can't unsee it and the walls go up. But a real community is something my future wants. But with the right people. So I thought. I can  fake it. Or I can actually create my own community. By the people I actively hang out with and keep close to me. But I went a bit closer.  I actively support. Going out of my way with no interest for myself to help other's.  Yes we do it for strangers sometimes.  That's how I met some of my close friends. Because I've helped without any interest.  But as an adult. Everyone has changed. Some are strangers. But those who stayed and those who have just become really good friends.  Being a better friend is just as important as having a great friend.

So as I'm getting ready on my working hours to help a friend and their family this morning. I think what becomes of this new friendship we'll see. If it becomes something great that would be amazing. If not. That's okay too. This is me learning if I want people to be there for me like this in my need that they would do the same for me. For the blessings of friends God has given me. I can't be more then blessed for the support. 

If you want a village. You have to be active villager. 

If you want a community.  You have not only be an active member but also try to create your own community for your future.

Have a blessed weekend